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The Pets We Abandon

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  In Pakistan, owning pets especially expensive, high breed ones has sadly become more about social display than responsibility. People are buying pets simply for fun or to follow trends. These pets are gifted like toys on birthdays or kept to make Instagram stories look cute. But what happens when the charm wears off? They throw them out. Just like that. I have personally witnessed this. I know families that kept a kitten only till it was small and “cute” and once it grew up, they dumped it outside their house, on roads, or worse, near trash bins. No one thinks about how that animal feels, how confused and scared it must be to be thrown out of the only home it ever knew. And this is not rare. Most of the rescued cats I have come across are Persian. That is not a coincidence. Abuse of animals is a well-known issue that’s often talked about in media, but abandonment is something that people do not even consider wrong. It is not even seen as cruelty. They think, at least I did not ...
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How can you become a productive teenager | Without waking up at 4.

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  Introduction: We all want to be productive and serious about life. But most of us don't have any idea about starting this journey. Being productive is not difficult as we think it is. You don't have to change everything from the start or induced dissimilar things in your life. You just have to make some simple habits that will make your life productive. Following are some of the habits and tips that will help you to achieve your goal of being productive especially if you are a teen: 1)Sleep early : 2)Make a list of things to do : 3)Eat healthily: 4)Work out or meditate: 5)Always have one hobby despite your schedule: 1)Sleep early : We all are guilty of scrolling mindlessly on social media and ruining our night routine . We all have heard how important it is to sleep early. This is something that we all cant can't deny. Sleeping early is necessary for good health, and also if you want to be fresh during the day. So the first thing that you should adopt is to sleep early. N...
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How to support individuals facing mental health crisis :

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 Nothing is more heartbreaking than watching someone close to you suffering from mental illness. It becomes very complicated. You feel distant and alone because you can't do anything for them. In such cases, you can't seem to know how you can help them. So in this post, I will share tips that can make sufferers feel better and you will be able to perform your responsibility. Following are some of the ways : 1)Listen to them : 2) Don't be overly sympathized: 3) Never force them to talk: 4) Keep that information confidential: 5) Invite them everywhere: 6)Don't be judgemental : 7) Make them feel valid: 1) Listen to them : People will rarely tell you about their mental illness. Mostly their friends or family members confront them after seeing their symptoms. Now if someone trusts you, Listen to them. Just listen to all their heart. First, listen to what they have in their mind. Avoid talking back. 2) Don't be overly sympathized: Now you have to make sure that you make t...
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How to make friends in highschool when you have social anxiety.

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  High school is a time of life when you decide on a pursuit, meet new friends, enjoy life, and much more. Regardless this is not always the case for some individuals, especially for people with social anxiety. 'Social anxiety is a disorder, which makes it very difficult to interact with others, you feel stressed out in public.' It's very tiresome condition. Now the question arises, is it possible to make friends when you have social anxiety? No doubt, it is indeed difficult but not unthinkable. In this article, I will share some comprehensive tips, that will help you in making friends if you suffer from such a condition. Following are some of the tips: 1)Sit in the Middle of class: 2)Try to smile and make eye contact: 3)Ask for help, and help others: 4)Challenge yourself daily: 5)Challenge your negative thoughts: 6)Try to take part in chatter when someone talks about your favorite topic: 7)Don't be hard on yourself: 1) Sit in the middle of class : Most of the time peop...
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How to save money in Pakistan tips for students.| Start saving money in 2024.

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  Saving money in this period is not easy. But it is important, as with the rise in inflation it has become very difficult to even attain necessities. If you are a university student or college student it is very important to save money for the future. It is like the wisest approach you should acquire. Living in Pakistan, we all know we have fewer opportunities to save money as students as compared to students abroad. So in this post, I will guide you completely about, how you can save money as a student. These are all the approaches that I attain, and they are giving me advantageous results.  Following are some of the tips: 1)Open an Asaan account in any of your nearest banks: 2)Set a goal for the year : 3)Divide your money monthly: 4) Don't scroll through online shopping apps: 5)Eat at home : 6)Don't pay attention to glitter: 7)Remember why you started: 8)Look for online jobs: 1)Open an Asaan account in any of your nearest banks: Asian account is a simple procedure to open a...
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How does living in a dysfunctional family effect children.

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  A dysfunctional family is simply a deficient family. The simple definition of delighted family that we learned in school, it's the opposite of that family.' A family where issues are not worked out normally', A family where the members do not act commonly. Deprivation of sympathy, lack of communication, abuse, and neglect are the common characteristics of such families.   According to a survey done in Uk in 2018, 11,270 children were taken into care due to dysfunctional families. There are many harmful effects on children after growing up in such flawed families. These effects can be  long time.  Following are some of the effects: Anxiety and Depression: Lack of trust: Being jealous of others: Being good at fabricating: Afraid of starting a family: Always feeling guilty: Lack of empathy: 1)Anxiety and Depression: The most common effect that children with dysfunctional families have is suffering from mental illnesses, and the most common of them are anxiety and depr...
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Domestic Abuse in Pakistan | Reasons and factors.

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  The term domestic commotion refers to the set of abuse that is done by the victim's spouse, relatives, or family members. The rate of suffering from domestic abuse in Pakistan has always been extended. Every one in 5 women suffered from domestic abuse in some kind of form. Approximately 50 percent of married women in Pakistan have suffered some kind of abuse once in their lifetime. Women are killed and beaten daily by their own so-called families. There are several causes and reasons why such practices have become so rationalized. Following are some of the kinds of abuse Pakistani women are facing: 1) Physical abuse: Beating your wife is a common practice in Pakistan. Those wannabe men because of their fragile egos torture their wives daily, They abuse them physically. Strangling, Punching, and Slapping are some of the types of physical abuse. Daily we hear such news where a husband beat his wife to the demise.  2) Psychological abuse: This is a type of abuse where the victi...
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Graduation gift ideas for your friend.| Wholesome and reasonable.

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  Graduation is a time that is very important in one's life. All those years, memories, and friends are something that remains a part of our life. Now if you have any family member or friend who is graduating and you don't have any slightest idea what should you gift her, then you are in a right place. In this blog, I will tell you the best gift ideas for your friend's graduation. You can gift her after the convocation and make her ceremony more meaningful. Following are some of the wholesome gift ideas: 1) Design a personalized scrapbook : 2)A gift box with noteworthy things : 3)Suprise her with a small party : 4)Give a picture necklace : 5)Printed cute cups : 6)A big bouquet and small handmade card : 1) Design a personalized scrapbook : What's better than giving your friend a personalized scrapbook? Indeed it's a most beautiful experience when someone unravels the scrapbook. You can give it a personal touch by pasting pictures that depict the story of your friend....
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